Today I was going for a laid-back look, but I wanted it slightly seductive for my boyfriend. I love surprising him with cute outfits that make his pupils 10X larger and have him at my side all day. Even though he is in love with me for my personality, being sexy every once and a while can't hurt.
So while this doesn't look very sexy at all, I would like to point out something. Being sexy doesn't necessarily mean wearing tight clothing and push-up bras. In fact, the only tight clothing I am wearing are my skinny jeans, and they still wrinkle on me! However, this shirt is slightly see-through--only so you can see the color of my pale skin. I wear a nude bra with some orange lace on the back (not as tacky as it sounds, but you can definitely see the back of my bra...Thanks Target). My shirt also has lace slits going up my sides so if you look carefully, you can see through my shirt. I top it off with converse and skinny jeans.
I feel it is subtle sexiness, and I felt very confident of my outfit. Isn't that what life is about? To feel confident and comfortable and to love yourself? I felt sexy today in a loose shirt and 0 makeup (how many people can ever say that?).
My advice to all:
Start loving yourself. I am recovering from being very self-conscious and insecure, but my friend told me to compliment myself in the mirror everyday. "Lindsey, you look great!" I say that out loud every morning, even if I don't believe. Because eventually, I will believe what I am saying. And you should too.